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Do you want to be
successful? Of course you do! You may think that
this was a silly question. No one daydreams about
being unsuccessful. But, really, having success is
a decision we can make for ourselves.
Let’s take a minute… I want
you to write down your dream. What are you dreaming
of? What are you striving for? Is it your dream
job? Is it your dream house? What do you want for
your future? And I want you to aim high! If you
aim for the sky and only make it 80% of the way, it
will still be a lot higher than if you started by
aiming for mediocrity.
I'll wait while you write
down your dream… Read it 5 times – read it out
loud. Then, close your eyes for 5 minutes and think
about it. Visualize it!
Now, I’m going to tell you
how you can get it. (By the way, if you’re
thinking, “Hey, this isn’t talking about algebra.”
Yes, it is! Just wait.)
Highly successful people
have six things:
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Creativity
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The ability to think and figure things out
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The ability to self-teach
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Confidence
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A
positive attitude
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DRIVE!
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Let’s look at each one.
Creativity:
When most people think of
creativity, they think of artists, dancers and
writers… But, the most successful people in
business, engineering, science and medicine are
highly creative! When Donald Trump is putting
together a deal, he’s got to be able to think out of
the box. He even wrote a book called "The Art
of the Deal." What does it take to create something new
in science? Creativity!
The ability to think and
figure things out:
Thinking and figuring
things out isn’t just for science and business.
Working out a dance routine requires planning and
thinking. Writing takes a LOT of thinking. In
fact, everything that you would consider an “art”
takes thinking.
Whether it be a science, an
art or business, having both creativity and the
ability to think and figure things out makes for a
killer combination. But, this isn’t all that’s
needed to be successful…
The ability to self-teach:
When you’re close to the
top or at the top, there’s no longer anyone around
to teach you what you need to know next. Those who
make it to the top and stay there are the ones who
figure out what they need to learn next and learn it
on their own. This is especially true for someone
setting out to create something that’s never been
done before!
Also, it will be very
important, no matter what your first “real” job ends
up being, that you be able to learn things quickly
and, yes, even on your own. Suppose two people are
hired at the same time for the same type of job.
Both are supplied with the same introductory
information to perform his/her job. Person #1 keeps
bothering the boss asking question after question.
Person #2, carefully reviews the materials provided
and starts working - perhaps just asking a couple of
thoughtful and intelligent questions. If you were the boss, which new
employee would impress you the most?
Of course, asking questions
is often very necessary, but you’ll want to try to
find the answer on your own before asking. The last
thing you want your boss to say is, “That’s on page
2 of your instruction package.” Then you look like
a dufus – something to be always avoided at a new
job. Don’t say I never gave you any good advice.
Confidence:
You may have it or you may
not. You may have it in some areas and not in
others. It sure seems like some people were
just born confident. You see them walking
around school acting like they've got it all
together. In reality, they're probably just
better at ACTING confident and, on the inside, they
may feel differently. The great thing is that confidence can be
built from items 1, 2 and 3 above!
A positive attitude:
Have you ever heard the
phrase “Bloom where you are planted?” Pretend
that you're a little flower seed getting blown down
a cracked, paved road... You fall in a crack.
Well, dang it, BLOOM ANYWAY! Of course, it
would have been nice to have been planted in a nice
pot with nutritious soil just the right amount of
water... But, you got a crack in the
road, so make the most of it!
I’m sure that a math class
is not where you’d like to be spending your time.
But, you don’t have much of a choice in the matter,
do you? You may really like the idea of being
in school and learning… But not THIS stuff!
There comes a time in life
when you have to decide what kind of person you are
going to be. Are you the type that will gripe and
complain the whole time? Or are you the type that
will make the best of the situation and find a way
to use it to your benefit?
Successful people are
always the ones to look at a seemingly unpleasant
situation or a bad turn of events and say, “How am I
going to use this to my advantage?” They will
always find a way to make the most out of
everything.
When life gives you lemons, make lemonade – AND SELL
IT!
Drive:
Highly successful people
set their goals… and they aim high. They know what
they want and they go after it. They want it badly
and are willing to work very hard to get it!
Six things… That’s it. |